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You Know You're An Adoptive Family When...

  • your child's new therapist scares the snot out of her... and you love him for it, and know you've finally found the right guy.
  • you daydream about how to add rooms or re-partition space in your small home to make room for more children.
  • for that matter, you wonder if there's someone who could retro-fit your van with another bench seat instead of the 2 seperate ones in the middle row, to make room for just one more child...
  • you have to remind yourself to let out of town friends and family members know how many kids you currently have, in case they missed a coming or a going.
  • you have to explain why the birthparents they love aren't on their "Safe-Side Adults" list.
  • you overhear your newest children talking in the bathroom, debating about whether they like this home better, or a previous one.
  • you tell your son he's your favorite black-haired 8 year old (since you also have a blonde 8-year old), and he replies with "And you're ONE OF my favorite moms."
  • your children see an advertisement with a baby in it and ask if we can "get that one."
  • your children ask to "keep" the babysitter.

Foster & Adoptive Placements

  • **K (3 days old)
    Picked up from the hospital 10/1/10, not sure how long she'll be here, but we're enjoying her!
  • **Gideon (7) and Malaika (5)
    Placed July 13, 2009 for adoption. A relative came forward and they were removed from our home Sept 26, 2009. Returned April 18, 2010. Adoption Finalized September 20, 2010!
  • L (11 days old)
    September 15-16, 2010 (2 days)
  • S (3 1/2)
    January 2010 (2 days)
  • C (6 months)
    December 2nd-23rd, 2009. (3 weeks)
  • C (8) & J (5)
    March 20th-22nd, 2009. (3 days.)
  • T (2) and A (13 months)
    February 2009 (3 days) Update: adopted by a family in Eastern Washington
  • R (1-2)
    February 4, 2009 - February 17, 2010. (1 year). Native child - tribe wouldn't allow adoption. Moved to a long-term foster home.
  • S (age 10)
    New Year's Eve 2008 (6 days) Update: being adopted by a co-worker of Brian's!
  • J (6) & S (2.5)
    December 2008 (6 days)
  • **Hallie (3 weeks)
    Placed August 2003 - Adoption Finalized December 2004
  • **Sam (13 months)
    Placed August 2002 - Finalized Adoption May 2003
  • J (7) & F (18 mo)
    Father's Day Weekend 2002 (4 days)

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02/25/2010

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You really have to plan your meals and rides? And bag, label, plan which day to wear and include photo of clothes? I love you Hilary, but you make this vacation sound like work...I think I'll take a nap now.

Work now, play later! And to clarify, only the KIDS clothes are labeled. Brian and I do pretty well at dressing ourselves most days. :)

I think you are the most organized vacationer I have ever heard of. WOW! :)
Have a great trip!

Hi Hilary, It seems like you have thought of everything!

In case you were not aware, Disney World offers FastPass and Rider Swap options - both a real time saver. In addition, the Disney World Guest Relations center has a "Guest Assistance Card" that you can request for a child on the Autism/Aspergers Spectrum who needs special accommodations (i.e. special seating, alternative entrance, waiting in line away from noise/close quarters or direct sun etc.) it may or may not shorten the wait, but it may make it easier. Go to the Guest Relations center with your child and explain their particular accommodation needs (a letter from a Dr. stating the child has autism would be helpful to show, but is NOT necessary - ADA/HIPAA privacy act.) - oh, and I hear you can request a "1st visit" button from them too.
Have a super fantastic time - can't wait to read about your experience at Disneyland!

Hilary...I have been meaning to comment for a long time and can remain silent no longer....YOU are amazing!!! I love reading your blog and seeing your creativity, you are truly an inspiration! This vacation blog is over the top....way to go! Chessa

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