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You Know You're An Adoptive Family When...

  • your child's new therapist scares the snot out of her... and you love him for it, and know you've finally found the right guy.
  • you daydream about how to add rooms or re-partition space in your small home to make room for more children.
  • for that matter, you wonder if there's someone who could retro-fit your van with another bench seat instead of the 2 seperate ones in the middle row, to make room for just one more child...
  • you have to remind yourself to let out of town friends and family members know how many kids you currently have, in case they missed a coming or a going.
  • you have to explain why the birthparents they love aren't on their "Safe-Side Adults" list.
  • you overhear your newest children talking in the bathroom, debating about whether they like this home better, or a previous one.
  • you tell your son he's your favorite black-haired 8 year old (since you also have a blonde 8-year old), and he replies with "And you're ONE OF my favorite moms."
  • your children see an advertisement with a baby in it and ask if we can "get that one."
  • your children ask to "keep" the babysitter.

Foster & Adoptive Placements

  • **K (3 days old)
    Picked up from the hospital 10/1/10, not sure how long she'll be here, but we're enjoying her!
  • **Gideon (7) and Malaika (5)
    Placed July 13, 2009 for adoption. A relative came forward and they were removed from our home Sept 26, 2009. Returned April 18, 2010. Adoption Finalized September 20, 2010!
  • L (11 days old)
    September 15-16, 2010 (2 days)
  • S (3 1/2)
    January 2010 (2 days)
  • C (6 months)
    December 2nd-23rd, 2009. (3 weeks)
  • C (8) & J (5)
    March 20th-22nd, 2009. (3 days.)
  • T (2) and A (13 months)
    February 2009 (3 days) Update: adopted by a family in Eastern Washington
  • R (1-2)
    February 4, 2009 - February 17, 2010. (1 year). Native child - tribe wouldn't allow adoption. Moved to a long-term foster home.
  • S (age 10)
    New Year's Eve 2008 (6 days) Update: being adopted by a co-worker of Brian's!
  • J (6) & S (2.5)
    December 2008 (6 days)
  • **Hallie (3 weeks)
    Placed August 2003 - Adoption Finalized December 2004
  • **Sam (13 months)
    Placed August 2002 - Finalized Adoption May 2003
  • J (7) & F (18 mo)
    Father's Day Weekend 2002 (4 days)

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10/24/2010

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Carrie

I think you should get two birthday dinners at your next birthday for missing the tradition your last birthday. :) I like that tradition, and I have to agree, that double down sandwich does sound like a heart attack waiting to happen...Brian (my husband)says you can get it with grilled chicken so I guess if you are on a no carb diet, it would work. Still doesn't sound that good to me. But I hope Gideon and Brian (your husband) enjoy their double downs :) I have virtual twins for 4 days :)

Stacy

I love the fun birthday traditions. We are planning baby C's 1st birthday which will put us with a 5 yr old, 2 that are 4 yrs old a 2 yr old and a 1 year old. Crazy- 5 kids in 4 1/2 years. We go to Denny's after an adoption. It isn't fancy, but we do it every time. And the kids love getting pancakes with a baseball drawn on them. And these traditions will stick with them and they will have great memories. Let him have his chicken, chicken sandwhich. It has been a tough haul for him. Great job mama- :)

Carolynn Slocum

Yeah, it is so good to see you back! Have you ever had the Krispy Kreme Cheese Burger. It is so good! I dont know where to get it anymore but it is a heart attack that is soooo worth it.

Jes

My boyfriend and I refer to the "Double Down" as "A Heart Attack w/o a bun." I personally refuse to try it but he has and liked it. As for me, I try to avoid overkill on the calories.

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