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You Know You're An Adoptive Family When...

  • your child's new therapist scares the snot out of her... and you love him for it, and know you've finally found the right guy.
  • you daydream about how to add rooms or re-partition space in your small home to make room for more children.
  • for that matter, you wonder if there's someone who could retro-fit your van with another bench seat instead of the 2 seperate ones in the middle row, to make room for just one more child...
  • you have to remind yourself to let out of town friends and family members know how many kids you currently have, in case they missed a coming or a going.
  • you have to explain why the birthparents they love aren't on their "Safe-Side Adults" list.
  • you overhear your newest children talking in the bathroom, debating about whether they like this home better, or a previous one.
  • you tell your son he's your favorite black-haired 8 year old (since you also have a blonde 8-year old), and he replies with "And you're ONE OF my favorite moms."
  • your children see an advertisement with a baby in it and ask if we can "get that one."
  • your children ask to "keep" the babysitter.

Foster & Adoptive Placements

  • **K (3 days old)
    Picked up from the hospital 10/1/10, not sure how long she'll be here, but we're enjoying her!
  • **Gideon (7) and Malaika (5)
    Placed July 13, 2009 for adoption. A relative came forward and they were removed from our home Sept 26, 2009. Returned April 18, 2010. Adoption Finalized September 20, 2010!
  • L (11 days old)
    September 15-16, 2010 (2 days)
  • S (3 1/2)
    January 2010 (2 days)
  • C (6 months)
    December 2nd-23rd, 2009. (3 weeks)
  • C (8) & J (5)
    March 20th-22nd, 2009. (3 days.)
  • T (2) and A (13 months)
    February 2009 (3 days) Update: adopted by a family in Eastern Washington
  • R (1-2)
    February 4, 2009 - February 17, 2010. (1 year). Native child - tribe wouldn't allow adoption. Moved to a long-term foster home.
  • S (age 10)
    New Year's Eve 2008 (6 days) Update: being adopted by a co-worker of Brian's!
  • J (6) & S (2.5)
    December 2008 (6 days)
  • **Hallie (3 weeks)
    Placed August 2003 - Adoption Finalized December 2004
  • **Sam (13 months)
    Placed August 2002 - Finalized Adoption May 2003
  • J (7) & F (18 mo)
    Father's Day Weekend 2002 (4 days)

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Not very close to you, but I know you come down to Seattle sometimes, the trail down to the base of Snoqualmie Falls is great this time of year and pretty short. I think it is only about 25 minutes from Seattle.

We are doing a bit of hiking ourselves. It is lots of fun and so good for the children.
Blessings,
Dawn

I love the Pacific Northwest - so many wonderful places to hike! If your family enjoys hiking, you may want to look into Geocaching.

Geocaching is a real-world, outdoor treasure hunting game using GPS-enabled devices. The website http://www.geocaching.com allows you to put in your zip code to access a list of thousands of Geocaches in your immediate area.(Bellingham has over 2100 caches - well hidden containers with fun stuff inside!)

Most Geocaches are hidden in various public access locations – parks, hiking trails etc.. Most caches have trinkets hidden inside them. If you take a trinket, you should leave one that you brought in its place. The cache is then re-hidden in the same place you found it so the next person will be able to locate it too.

It is a great low/no cost way to spend time with family. The advantage of Geocaching is that you get great exercise while having a goal-focused adventure discovering new places in your community. (The sport of Orienteering may be of some interest to you too.)

Piggybacking on Gwendie's comment, we prefer letterboxing to geocaching (www.letterboxing.org). The kids each have a rubber stamp that represents them, we carry an ink pad, and they each have their own memo books to record. You download directions and follow the clues like a treasure hunt. A lot of the time you come across amazing hand carved rubber stamps hidden in boxes in the woods. So you stamp their stamp in your book, and record date, trail, etc. and stamp your stamp in their book, and record. Then rehide.

Orienteering is a ton of fun as well.

Glad you're back to blogging. I've been lurking for a bit because my husband and I consider adopting form the foster care system, and as painful as your experience has been, we're thankful for every minute of it you've posted. We need the reality of it not working, and the reality of what troubles we may face. May God continue to bless your family.

Kelly, thanks for the info on Letterboxing - I had no idea that it existed! I checked it out online and looked up letterboxes in my area. There was one a block away from me so I checked it out. Very cool! Looks like the kids and I have a new pastime. Thanks again for sharing!

Yay, we love hiking and Squires is a family favorite for easy low key days. Do go to the end of the Beaver Pond where you will see all the gnawed down trees and dam which are fascinating. The beavers are nocturna, you can't see them, but will certainly see their work. I am sure with a little more practice you'll be ready to tackle Oyster Dome - a Must Do hike!! (Even Keston could do it at 5, just work up to it a bit!). Have fun!

I hope the kids were encouraged by the hike. Take them out more and their interests will shift from tv and computer games to the outdoors.

When you graduate from the city park, more walking sticks and better footwear should be planned. And practice your directions!

This good bonding time for kids and it also helps in their development as a person. I always consider hiking a fun past time...

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